It’s not Their Fault, its not Your Fault.

There are so many moments of uncertainty in life. Will you get this, can you do that, what will happen in the future to you, your family and friends? What will happen to your job?

Then there are the moments where you feel resentment and irritation for things that happen and what people say. From your perspective it is often easy to think that they should have said it another way or done what it was you wanted done. Even simple things like driving the way you think somebody else should,  can be irritating to you when the mood is right.

When this happens remember it’s not their fault, you are the driver they are the vehicle.

By this I mean that in this world of creation you are creating experiences whether you know it or not. Every thought with emotion behind it is sent out to the Universe as a frequency and message. These are like vehicles you use to learn your lessons, and you are the driver. That is a powerful position to be in.

With this in mind each experience you have is something that you as a soul needed and wanted.

It could be to learn how to forgive,

How to let go of what others think,

How to enjoy life and trust more – there is an endless number of things to learn.

Lessons we want to learn at a soul level are not often obvious or conscious. You can use numerology and astrology to give you some clues as to why you came to this Earth and what you wanted to learn.

You can also use the experience of things not working out to guide you as to what gives you joy. But ultimately your connection with your soul gives you the clues you need to feel fulfilled in your life and a little more understanding when those odd moments of discomfort appear.

I think the main lesson to learn is gratitude for each moment you have on this Earth and forgiveness for what you have done and others have done to you. Forgiveness and gratitude wipe the slate clean giving you the opportunity for a more joyful and fulfilling drive through life.

The Hawaiian forgiveness ceremony Ho´oponopono is wonderful at removing past karma between people. It does not necessarily mean it is from this life time. When doing the Ho’oponopono on people to clear past issues I felt a greater relief from the part of the mediation where they forgive me, than the section where I forgive them. For more information see the following books and link.

Dr. Hew Len, Hawaiian Psychologist, Using the Ho’ponopono, https://hubpages.com/religion-philosophy/How-Dr-Hew-Len-healed-a-ward-of-mentally-ill-criminals-with-Hooponopono.

Joe Vitale and Ihaleakala Hew Len, Zero Limits: The Secret Hawaiian System for Wealth, Health, Peace and More.

Spiritual Reality: transforming the Ordinary into the Extraordinary  Lydia Anne Mitchell Ph.D.

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